How do you carry out security checks on prospective clients if you’re an independent escort? Im considering becoming an indpendent but am concerned about the safety issues

I wouldn’t contact her booker. If anything I’d book her a hotel and book her yourself. Her booker will not want any knight in shining armour to rescue her as he/she’ll lose money.

If you book her you will need to pay for her, just like you’d have had to pay to get the letter passed on. If she’s being pimped out you would cause her massive problems if she came away from a client meet with no cash.

Book her to talk to her and let her know that you’re there for her, give her no pressure just a phone number to call if she ever wants to talk. If she tries to walk away and doesn’t want to talk to you, you have to let it go, and leave her. You can’t help someone that doesn’t want to be helped.

All the abreviations are for sexual services:

BBBJ means bare back blow job
Greek is anal sex
Russian is breast relief

(You can find more here) http://dating.com/about-escorts/escort-hobby-glossary.do

Let me know how you get on…

I don’t really know… What do you think I should Do? I wanna be there for her, she’s my liitle smoo…

Maybe you could help me figure out a nice way to text it to the booker!!!

Also there is something I wanted to ask you…. When I look at the Website for this agency, you can clearly see that it’s based on prostitution, the girls are described as PSE o r GFE, but they always have a description that includes some weird wordings like: BBBJ, Greek, Russian or I don’t know what else…. One of my friends explained to me what some of those mean… and so Its directly advertised that the girls are there to do that stuff…. So imagine If I book her, won’t she be frustrated that she ends up not meeting a real client to do that stuff and so not get paid what she expects too? How should I deal with that? I know long therm meeting me is better, but in the short term present, she might freak out because she needs the money… No obviously I can give her all the money she wants to help her, but I don’t really know how to deal with that exactly to not hurt her feelings or make it sound bad…. One detail I missed explaining, is that it was always tough to talk things out with her, it was always like walking on egg shells, she could go crazy for one little thing said the wrong way…. and when she drank OMG… Let’s not get into that… I heard of wife beaters, but never thought i’d get close to the “man beater” (and im saying this with a smile you know).

Thanks for the time bea

And i’m not giving up already… It’s true that some friends told me things, and also is the fact that I just put an end to a relationship that I’ve been in for the last two years. My wonderful ex-girlfriend Caroline is obsessed with me, she won’t let me see my friends or let me do anything else that doesn’t implie her, like playing guitar or chilling on my computer. She permits herself to scream at me when she’s not happy and she always wants to have sex all the time… She has tried to control me so much that it made me unhappy and very stressed out, like really stressed out you know… I mean I’m super sweet and I spent 98% of my time with her all the time, everyday, everynight, can’t I one saturday out of a month go see my friends? And I never cheated on any girl in my whole life and I never will, I’m already so picky when it comes to having a relationship with a women, I only go for the serious ones.. Now the reason i’m telling you this is that 3 months ago when I broke up with her, I did it in a very respectful and thoughtful manner, but it was hard. And she cannot let go of me and keeps calling, texting and kind of stalking me. It made me realize that I didn’t want to be the same with Laura, I figured that if she hadn’t called me, it’s probably because she didn’t want to talk to me.

But I’m happy that you mention what you just did… Because it’s true… the drugs, the emotional hurt and the fact that you must admit being in escorting must all be pretty heavy and sometimes one might just prefer to close up and stop having to deal with all that. And it’s normal because most people judge other and don’t try to understand.

I mustn’t give up, I feel in my heart that I must see her again, she needs to know i’m there, I know it. But you know, you can’t help to wonder about how she still is such a strong person to deal with all of that, so why not call me…. But by the way I think you gave me great advice, and Its normal that some underlying concepts wont’ necessarily get through the first exchange. I studied Marketing in University, not Psychology! But I want you to know that I appreciate so much the exchanges with you, it’s really nice and its comforting regarding me and Laura. *DEEP BREATH* Hopefully I can figure this out, I know what I must do, I just need to do it…

So thanks, I’m having a rare beer right now as i’m writing this, so “Cheers mate!” (With english accent)

Ciao

Thanks for your reply, it’s really sweet! No its not really that, I love my 30s and I’m really happy about who I am and very proud also. It’s more the fact that my parents are aging, and it’s kind of scaring me a bit. I love them, so much. I’ve had a really hardcore last 3 years, I’ve seen around me a few people that got sick and passed and it’s scaring me a bit because it’s a part of life that I had never really thought about so much… the changing of things . And sometimes it’s just good to talk about it with someone who has lived such things before you, they kind of help you understand it better, and it’s just good to talk about it. But I appreciate your response, considering myself, there is no problem, my life is far smoother than most people on this earth, god has been very good to me.