To me the difference between a client and boyfriend/partner is very obvious and shouldn’t need explaining. It’s very black and white – a client pays for time a boyfriend doesn’t. That’s why clients should never get confused about the feelings an escort has for them, because whilst money is exchanging hands for time spent together there should be no misunderstanding that it is, to put it bluntly – a business transaction. It doesn’t mean that escorts don’t enjoy the date, or care about the people they see – but it means that it is not a real relationship and should never be confused with one. Once the money stops exchanging hands and there is intimacy involved then it becomes personal.

You seem to be surprised that your ex escort partner is so normal… intimacy, looking after you when you are ill, helping with your kids. That’s pretty standard stuff that one would expect in a relationship along with much more. I’m not sure what sort of escorts you have booked but there are many of us that are very ‘normal’ people!

I’m not embarrassed, ashamed or sorry about my past, and whoever I meet will have to accept that. I’m not going to apologise for who I am or what I have done because I’m a good person and I am not ashamed that I worked as an escort. I’ve had some incredible experiences, and met some amazing people.

By saying you struggle to understand how your partner ‘fitted in’ it suggests you think that escorts generally aren’t fit to be wives and mothers. Why does this come as a surprise to you? Many of us are normal girls. Don’t forget that by nature many of us are very giving people. We spent a lot of time making men feel good about themselves and giving them affection, so naturally many of us have a very caring nature – Especially those of us offering The Girlfriend Experience where we offer a complete ‘well being’ package as a pose to just a sexual service.

I’m pleased that you are now happily married

She certainly does everything for me that she would have done for a client….but a hell of a lot more. The intimacy, love and affection, even just stupid little things like caring for me when I am ill, cooking for me, helping with my kids when I have them. I have known a few escorts fairly well actually and have yet to meet one who didn’t have their reasons for doing what they did. Most of them were extremely old fashioned in so many ways.

Now, the girl I married has really been such a great wife and perfect companion, best friend and lover that I do sometimes wonder how she was able to “fit in” as a wl. Maybe she didn’t?

My only advice is that, if a man loves you he will protect and serve you….that is his job. If you have issues with your past, just tell him you don’t wish to discuss it, it is history. As long as you really do love him, let him know it by your actions and he will believe it. Does the rest really matter? Hell, why should she ask forgiveness for her past, unless I express forgiveness for my past? I saw wl’s, hell, that is how we met.

She once told me how to let go of things, unrelated things. I often piss myself off with what I have done or said. Her advice to me was “Accept it”. Funny thing is, it works for me. I just accept it and move forward. As for her being a wl, I know the difference between gfe and an actual girlfriend…..so will your future partner.

I was really intrigued to find out you’d ACTUALLY got round to writing this book (Congratulations BTW)!!!!

However, most of all, I wanted to ask you something slightly more puzzling……. have you ever fancied a neighbour and invited him round for flirtatious dinner dates??

Just a thought.